Teenagers wanting to have children
Amity: I just want to know how many teenagers are on here that want to have children before the age of 21?
virginkiss: Well, I don't want to. But, (and this wa made into a movie too), sveral years ago, following the "virginty pacts", were the pregnancy pacts. Young high school girls would all make a pact to get pregnant that year. Usually ( as in the movie, based off the true events) there would already be a pregnant girl, and then she'd persuade her friends to join in a pact with her.
Actually, besides the pregnancy pacts, I really don't think many young girls try to get pregnant, it merely happens due to lack of discretion. If you've ever seen the show "16 and pregnant" on MTV, then you would see that is normally the case. One girl, (I was watching the how with my mom, go figure), was telling hetr friends how her and her boyfriend had never used any protection- she was almost happy about this, but now she was pregnant as a result.
Amity: I quite enjoy that show, it is a great thing that anyone with a teenage daughter should make her sit down and watch. Parents can tell teenagers not to get pregnant however it doesnt matter how much you preach to them its only when it happens to them first hand they understand the consequences and sacrifices needed to be made with having a child so young.
abstrectchrist: In Clive Barkers The Great and Secret Show the first part of it has 5 girls being atttacked by a mysterious force and afterwards they feel the deep need to get pregnant by any means necessary, even driving one mad cause she can't and also diseased cause in here efforts she'd go to a biker bar on the bad side of town and get f%x&$w by multiple guys at a time for weeks on end.
family stuff I know! But seriously if there ever is one that actually wants it like Brittney Spears's sister, put her into therapy before she actually gets what she wants.
virginkiss: lol Third-ur so randomly weird!
And i'd say, just the girl's friends should be able to convince her not too (unless its a pregnancy pact)-other than some therapist....
i know IF i wanted to get pregnant,the last person i'd go to would be a shrink. lol i'd either tell me friends or keep it a secret until i got my wish...
Not that i want to get pregnant lol just saying
chriser: Well..... I had my first Daughter at 17... I didnt want children so young but it happened and im happy now, so when i was 20 my artner planned another baby and she was born a month before i was 21, so yeah you could say i was a teen who wanted children before i turned 21..... Wouldn't change my angels for the world
moma04: well how young of a teenager? I have 4 kids and I am 32 had my first at 21 and won't change my kids in for nothing i love them so much, but I see all these young girls at 15 and 16 and don't know if some of them should be a mom. some of them don't really know what their doing or don't want to give up partying.my sister had her first at 15 and I was only 13, all she did was pass him off on my mom and me so she could go party or hang out with her friends, thats why I waited till I was older. so I guess it depends on the person and the family.
xojeskaxo: I'm pregnant with my first. Triplets. And I'm 19 but I've also been married for a year so it was sort of planned.
Emi63: im 19 and just found out im pregnant a couple of days ago, i have never been this happy before! i cannot wait for my little one to arrive in Feb.
hitsugaya252: ops here are some girls and they are happy too.
'i also have one'. umm i guess this day wont come for me lol
breezy: i wish i would have waited its a hard job. i love my kids to death but i just wish i would have waited till i was a little older. its hard if your doing a good job. its easy if your not doing a good job.
paigeXparade: I was 14 when I have my daughter, I am now 18, so i know what that is like all the pain of labor and all, but i think the best thing i did for my child was giving her up for adoption (:
Cody010306: Well I had got my girlfriend pregnant wen I was 16 I'm 21 now but I still took care of my son I mean if ur not ready to have a kid then don't do it. Cuz you have to be able to take responsibility in the end
Madly_insane: I Always loved kids and always toold mam i wanted at child wen i was 16
she used flip cause she had me at 16 and didn't want me making the wrong decisions
but in de end i didn't im 21 now and still wit the same guy since i was 14
but had a miscarrige earlier this yr