True Friends

Ms Aryaa: are hard to find. But if you have found one or two, take it from me, you are the most lucky person.

Ms Aryaa: If one is on a social n/w site like wire for over a year and yet has no true friend, it is most probable that the person has same issue in real life too....no friends in real life too, just a lonely existence.

just my thinking...

Hoodlum Forester: I'm just being cautious!

Ms Aryaa: I understand that catch.
But, I'd say...be cautious when falling in love...but for friendship, take risks, take chances.

Hoodlum Forester: Okay!

Ms Aryaa: Also, a good friend can give more happiness than a lover....think about it. That is the basic difference between love(romance) and friendship

Hoodlum Forester: I thought the main difference was footing the whole bill for dinner or splitting the cost..

Ms Aryaa: Love is at the base of both relationship.... friendship and romance, but in friendship there is freedom.

Ms Aryaa: hahaaa....That sounds more like dating ritual. ...and males do it for their ego?

Hoodlum Forester: Rod was my first friend here. He just happened to pop around as I was setting up my page and asked to be my friend and I said YES We never talked a lot, but I knew he was there for me as I saw his smiling face every time I logged on. For me, Rod IS Wireclub and the bestest friend anyone here could ever have!

Ms Aryaa: As a kid, I had lot of imaginary friends

Hoodlum Forester: I imagine you did

Ms Aryaa: And now, I have found the way to transform my imagination into reality.
Where there is a will, there is a way.

Hoodlum Forester: You turned your imaginary friends into real people? Wow...

Ms Aryaa: yep....you should know...every reality is first born on imaginary plane of psyche and then it gets manifested into real world.

Hoodlum Forester: Right, like the Kardashians..

Ms Aryaa: Mind is a magnet...catch. It attracts and repels people/circumstances in real life....as per ones conditioning by the thoughts and beliefs.

Ms Aryaa: lol.....it is about that show....No, I don't know about it.
Don't get time to watch TV. Wire is my only sin.

Hoodlum Forester: I'm still Googling your last post..

Ms Aryaa: sorry I edited my last post.

Hoodlum Forester: Me either (four years now without the boob tube) but I get to see her and the rest of the marginally talented in Yahoo news.

PureSilver67: I'd say take risks in friendship and love Aryaa ... never know who or what is out there for you ...

and yes to have friends here is a true reflection of having friends outside of here because they are all real to me. I value them just as much And yes I've met a couple and plan to meet a few more over time

As for those who are not their true selves in here ... what goes around comes around

Ms Aryaa: That is cool...Pure. Luck favours the brave.
And I completely agree with your last sentence.

Hoodlum Forester: Ah, the iron fist in the velvet glove!

Ms Aryaa: yep...what can I do?
My goodness is percieved as timidness here....so have to do something about it.
Maybe soon, I will turn into iron-maiden...tough to the core

Hoodlum Forester: What? That's not the answer. You have to suffer the slings and arrows and all that. It's the internet way..