Does preferring certain features make you racist?

PuppYofDoom: On the topic do you think that excluding someone from a chance with you because of certain features they cant help of because of how they are born makes you racist?

Now understand I love all types of people of all cultures and colors, but i do find im discriminating against future love interest.


Personally i have dated white girls and have watched them become pink while i like to sleep in the sun, i like industrial music and the goth sub culture.its rare to find a white girl with a nice butt. ive dated a pure black girl and sorta was freaked out by the whole weave experience and lack of being able to shower with me... a few times. I like a big booty... i like long natural hair. i like fit women. now i generally dont like asian or south asian women because i find they dont workout at all. I have dated them all in the past, except arabic girls as i refuse to date a Muslim woman. Its not that i dont ike arab women i think theyre gorgeous i just dont agree with or respect her culture. Im Roman catholic

Now these are just generalizations but i guess i do say white or black girls asian and indian girls in general. i remember discussing this with some people and i got called out as a racist by one girl and then another chimed in. they always say Leons racisttt dont bother. I dont think i am.

I actualy prefer mixed women or latino(already mixed) women in general.
I myself am mixed, IndianWhite/Venezualian portugese(mom) + Asian Indian Black (dad)

I mean ill date and go out for fun with anyone but i dont want to commit to someone out of my preferences anymore.

What say you? Do you have any similar experiences?

Captain Canada:
Seems that you have huge inner issues and your confused man.
Ever consider investing in a Robot?

PuppYofDoom: shure why not, ill get one of the japanese ones that say oni chan.

PuppYofDoom: What type of robot do you recommend though? I mean i am confused as you say. You dont seem like the type who has ever had a human woman and you are quite clear. So I defer to your robot buying experience and expertise good sir.

Edit: I am serious and earnestly awaiting your advice

Captain Canada: Well I never needed to purchase one because beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
In my opinion you have low self esteem as you are concerned with the outside beauty and not a woman's TRUE beauty
Her inner beauty,personalty,intellectual,and if you admire those qualities your problems are solved

PuppYofDoom: You could just say you wanted to take a shallow jab.If your going to offer advice on an area you have no experience on.

Oh well my personal dilemmas have nothing to do with the topic as i wondered if it made me racist in the eyes of others and my askings were for similar experience.
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If i were to give you a likewise opinion, you probably havent had many women in your lifetime and are saying something a man with little to no choice would say.. but no no u must be right a man with enough choice to discriminate must have some sort of low self esteem. Especially being honest with what he likes and wanting it. Thats exactly what people with low self esteem do.

.Do i need to point out that I love all people but what i want to commit to seriously with i am finding myself discriminating. Im not alone on that as you see some women want certain males of certain races or exclude others for features. Is it because I am a man?

What an enlightening mirror of yourself you have projected onto me. I was earnestly hoping to try out your Robot advice but it seems you dont even have experience with that. you could have at least googled something for me buddy.

oh well Cheers buddy. .

Captain Canada: Good hunting

PuppYofDoom: i have found a beautiful woman capn, my new gf, shes tanned got big eyes, shes in great shape and has alot of energy puppyofdoom's Pictures

Captain Canada: But Puppy aren't you somehow being a racist by having a new GF with a tan (what happened to the women that aren't tanned) and she has big eyes ( what happen to the women with small eyes)
I hear Toyota makes good robots

travelgrl703: Wow! It isn't that difficult: date Latino women. The rest of us will be glad that you did. You are not racist just a bit shallow and clueless. All white women do not have flat or flabby asses...some of them tan very well naturally. All black women do not wear weave and aren't afraid to shower with their partner. And Asians DO work out. Many of them are in excellent shape. I have no idea of the company you keep. If you like you that's all that matters. In my opinion, ANY woman deserves a person much better than you. I am just saying....

Captain Canada: Well said Travelgirl
I do really like the SHALLOW and CLUELESS thing

PuppYofDoom: Capn canada aside because hes a troll in general and a loser who looks for conflict period.

To travel

WOW it isnt difficult, i was asking other people to share their experiences. and their opinion if that made me racist in their eyes.

dear travel girl i said these are generalizations and if you understand the English language. you wouldn't need to type that long paragraph. To be shallow id have to be of no depth. and I am not clueless that other people have their own beauties? i love everyone but i find when i look at a partner i want to commit to. I discriminate sort of now because of all my experiences, i've dated enough to realize if you re not that attracted to your partner or somethings missing. its probably gonna cause problems. I have to be considerate of them and their life and time. You're right there are some asian women. but like i said that's a generalization. I am sorry if i offended you in that regard.

I realize these forums aint that hot or filled with people who have reading comprehension. Every man deserves a better woman who doesn't jump to conclusions and starts screaming out insults like an idiot such as you. , I assume you're gonna be an abusive gf to some poor chap getting confused in your own head already because you cant comprehend things and piece together stuff and look to hurt someone. no man deserves an abusive woman who like you, ive gone through that.. but you're good enough for capn.

Course women babble out this sorta stuff all the time. no men of certain area./ etc. but if a man does it hes a horrible person. i've been with 300 lb + women. my ex was and she was white. ive been with skinny girls and dated alot of asian and indian women who dont exercise. ive tried being with these women but i found they also had their own insecurities. so yes im going fo look at someone who is in shape and attractive, would i be so shallow as to think because someones more attractive they have less of a personality?. Not all black girls don't wear weave, that's you putting words in my mouth. generally.

To be shallow, i would have to be not looking deeper. i wouldnt have given any other types of women a chance. just look at the surface. not think about my life with them conflicts personal problems that might arise and personal problems with me and whether or not it was fair to them. maybe i could have gone without the personal experiences because i believed id get responses from adults not teenage minded little girls who cant read and get offended at the drop of a hat.

That would make you shallow. as you just saw the surface of the words and jumped to whatever thought. that would make you clueless as you didnt comprehend or maybe "couldnt." But you are maybe just an ugly person on the inside because you seek conflict and to offend rather than understand.
Oh another Mirror projected.

edit: thank you. i enjoyed this. I really do.

travelgrl703: In your BOOK, you brought up one point that made sense: Stop wasting other peoples time. You already know that you have issues with women of certain origins. STOP DATING THEM! I was correct in saying that women deserve better than you. YOU: a man who finds a woman good enough to screw both literally and figuratively but finds that....that same woman is not good enough for "long term" your words not mine.

At the end of this day, " a rose IS and ALWAYS will be a rose". You feel me?
It is what it is and you are who you are.
Signed, not a mad black woman...toodles :0)

PuppYofDoom: hahhaha u mad. wasting other ppls time. im here to discuss it with other ppl. ppl were discussing this in dating chat and a few times in pcl. Forum ppl are a lil more looking to attack ppl. You MAD. twist it around all you like. bye bye. good bye angry liar. You know what i said hit home. GG

and no man deserves a foolish angry attacking women like you. cept capn.

travelgrl703: Your opinion of me, dear sir, matters not. "The rose" just in case that went over your head.

travelgrl703: Hugs

PuppYofDoom: you're no rose or anything that eloquent. dont flatter yourself. hahaha. even a second time responding you're just a twisted thorn.

You on dat BS feel me? those who throw sticks n stones but say it dont matter to them. LOL. i feel sorry for you.

have a nice day :hugs: your responses delighted me so much.

travelgrl703: Muah

Idonthaveausername: I know this is an old thread but I want to comment.

I know exactly what you mean and I hear about this all the time. You here people say stuff like:
"I prefer (race/ ethnicity men/women because....." or
"I'm not physically attracted to (race/ ethnicity) men/women because of .... features." or
"I just haven't seen any (race/ethnicity) men/ women that I find attractive."

Now, to make a statement that generalize a whole race for being a certain way is stereotypical since everyone doesn't fits that generalization. Some of the generalizations you make may be based off of your personal experience alone which is understandable. Just remember don't make your experience be your perception of every (blank) person you meet.

For example, I have met some non-black people that tell me "Most black women seem loud and mean" why? because that was their experience. Then I tell them "not all of us black women are like that and there awesome black women out there that are cool and down to earth."

When it comes to physical attraction AND ONLY PHYSICAL ATTRACTION (not including personality) as in "oh he is hot or oh she is cute" that is tricky one because TO AN EXTENT you can't choose what you are attracted to. You can't help but to look at some guy/girl walking down the street and say "DAYUUUUM he/she looks good". Maybe you don't like freckles, maybe you don't like moles, maybe you don't like muscular build, maybe you don't like etc. Everyone is attracted to different things at the end of the day.

When it comes to "picking certain races to date", it is such a touchy topic. Most people around the world date within their own race/ethnicity anyways because it is what they are comfortable with or they may have fears or just not interested in dating outside or that it is inconvenient. If preferring a certain race or your own race makes it racist, then that means MOST of the world is racist too. Preference indicates that whatever is preferred is what is thought to be superior to the rest hence it being racist.

I personally don't care what color my future lover will be. As long as we are happy and love each other. Others should do the same and mind their own business.

MatureLionheart: Since we're all racists, the question is moot.

The giant midget: username
once again you nailed it perfect

Fog Swept Glade: Yes. It isn‘t political or oppressive.