How the Player plays women.

TTauresa
TTauresa: So, this is from the Clown's perspective:

Wow, she finally found me, she must really want me. I'm going to treat her like shit, disrespect her, lie to her, give her just little bits of my time and make promises I have no intention of keeping. She surely won't stay around after that.

Hmmmm....I can't believe she's come back looking for me again. I would have thought that by treating her so bad to begin with she wouldn't want to be treated like that anymore. I'm going to treat her like shit some more, give her some even bigger lies and give her hope when I know there isn't any.

WOW, she is back for more? I thought for sure she'd have gone away by now. After all, I have really been an asshole to her. I've given her nothing but pain and heartache, yet she seems to enjoy all these bad things I can give her. I'm thinking she must be enjoying this.

OMG - this is great! She has come back again and I now know for sure that I don't ever have to change. That no matter how bad I treat her, no matter what I say or do, no matter how much I lie to her, hurt her, give her hope - she is just going to accept it. I don't have to change my life, ruin my family, put anything of my own in jeopardy because she has proven to me she will continue to keep coming back for me. No matter how bad I treat her.

And, I keep getting to have someone on the side who I can have sex with, who I can call when I'm lonely, hurting or just need someone to understand my problems. I can fit her into my life because she is waiting around and always available to me no matter what. She is so happy for the 5 minutes we get together that I don't have to give more than that.

Wow, I LOVE being the Clown. I have it made!!

I feel sorry for the one who keeps looking for me.
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NotThatD
NotThatD: I don't... they obviously have not learned their own self worth, so therefore are not worthy of any of MY sympathy.

Any women that lets a man treat her like that, is no real woman.
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