any guys that dont just want a FWB or booty call ??

tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: Hey, you could have all of it........but all you gotta do is like actual dating, taking people places, going to events, not just calling at 11 pm to come over...NO. What dont you understand??? I make clear upfront, I want a relationship, you dont have to marry me next month, ha, you can still do your guy things with friends for god's sake, i am not clingy and needy, and I make my own living and my own home thank you very much and am attractive . So, all you have to do is have some chemistry with me, that's important, but respect and appreciation and attending events that are FUN such as sports events, concerts, movies, parties, work functions where I need a professional date, and travel. You just need to be a loving, kind, and exclusive partner. Is that asking too much in this society now where it's so easy with chat rooms and dating sites to find just hook ups? with no strings.... I dont want that. I dont have to settle for that. So dont bother!

And if you are not nearby or available on weekends, you are married or with someone or just plain dont wanna spend the time with me or you would make yourself around on weekends !!! End of story. Easy to figure out that one when I say oh i have parties and things to go to alot in November and December and I'm told uh, you wanna meet for a drink at 10 pm?? oh, can i come over/?? and then hear " i'm gonna be out of town with friends every weekend Nov and Dec. " WT F bloody hell.

Blow it out your loser with roommate pathetic low life ass.................
you think desperate cougar here or what?? Pleeeeezzz
outta my face homey

Isnt it simple??/ great fun girl who yes likes sex but with an exclusive partner. God help me..lol
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ksk1001
ksk1001: all you said can happen only when the guy have respect for women . if he has no respect for women you can never expect him to be respectfull to you
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carebare_1
carebare_1: Nobody wants me. so, fwb is fine with me. its the closest thing to a relationship i can get.
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tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: nobody wants u?? why not??
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carebare_1
carebare_1: because im waaaay too picky and because of my weight problems.
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tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: i identify with the Picky things............i do.
hmmm, what can you do to motivate yourself on the weight issue?? its making u unhappy...
it would do wonders when you start losing, then you want to do more. Its the getting started part..
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carebare_1
carebare_1: yeah, i do realize that and have done it. but it is very hard.
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tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: I was fortunate to have the lucky genes in my family, everyone is skinny , but as I age, i gotta watch a little more what i eat, but its hard, you are right, cause i love food so much and who wants to always exercise... I'm no gym rat..I have to do other things like walk, bike, fun things. I signed up for tennis and gonna do yoga..it also helps your mood alot once you do it. you are right, not an easy thing for anyone... instant or quick fixes dont last. wish you luck!
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tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: I cannot just have a FWB. There must b e more to it. At least go places..and how bad can that be with me, I'm fun..........and they are not out much moneywise either...Duh duh duh
some girls just want guys to spend a bunch on them...shallow and money hunting. That is so not me. holla!!!!
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carebare_1
carebare_1: thats not me either. at least i have a companion and im not lonely even though he is just a fwb. thats all i want, someone around and i'm blessed to have a fwb because thats as close as im going to get, i guess.
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tanlegsatthebeach
tanlegsatthebeach: well if you are happy in it.........go for it. That is great. But for me it would be an empty shell that would hurt me more in the long run. Usually someone, the girl, gets feelings, even though everyone says they wont... and its heartbreak for most. But if it works for you, i'm happy for you really! No judging .
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carebare_1
carebare_1: thank u
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Comrade_
Comrade_: What's FWB?
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ohnonotthatguy
ohnonotthatguy: Friend With Benefits
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SillySally8
SillySally8: lol jack....have you not seen the movie?
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Comrade_
Comrade_: haa the things that went through my mind
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jako234
jako234: does anyone know what Amy (tanlegsatthebeach) changed her screen name to or whether she still even uses wireclub? any help would be appreciated
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CurvyKooky
CurvyKooky: Hahahahaha from my experiences there's not many...lol..
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Thor213
Thor213: i saw the movie friends with benefits or was it no strings attached. there is always strings attached unless your higher on the personality scaie for NPD,ext...
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BAD WOLF_
BAD WOLF_: Ice cream... it's like having to eat vanilla ice cream the rest of your life, sure it's tasty, comfortable and you know it well but most people prefer to try different flavors here and there. True vanilla might be the favorite but variety is always more tempting than the same thing constantly. Im not saying there are not any people who like monogamy it's just... not as appealing in today's age. I'm open to finding someone I have a real connection with and maybe marriage in the future but being a one woman man right now is a no no... that's just my thought
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