surely it cant be this hard?

thomaswatson302: No player, no creep show, no sleaze either. Not one to persistently beg on sites or in bars for a hook up...there lies the problem is that I miss all aspects of female companionship. Not saying I do or don't want a relationship as I'm not sure??!!!, what i do know is i miss the intimacy but its hard to get when you're not out there!!!. Would like to hear from any girls in Sydney who are in the same situation and we could possibly chat. Not expecting anything maybe chat and talk dribble and see where it goes.
Hopefully that came across as intended

notsur3ly: Well from what I have been told you can't just stand at the sides and watch. You have to be a little aggressive and go after what you want. Sometimes just stating the truth in what you want will get you what you want.

This is an opinion from someone who's been single for.....ever...I think .