Why do I always attract the wrong guy? Karebeargirl: It would be nice to find someone to do things in life with and to be able to talk to when I am having a bad day but I I seem to attract is disrespectful guys.  Mr Random: Hi I don't necessarily think that you attract the wrong guy... I just think that sadly the wrong guys outnumber the nice ones it's a statistical thing... Don't blame yourself just knowing that you shouldn't put up with disrespect is enough none of us do enjoy your day Mr Random: Proof is in the pudding you either good pudding or bad pudding - if you get bad pudding do you really want it?  xanderiley: Kare: You're not in a relationship, but you're also not in a bad or abusive relationship. You're unwilling to settle for Mr. Right Now in the quest for Mr. Right. A lot of people are not that dedicated to quality over availability, and they usually come to regret it later on. If you think about it, you're not alone -- you are a friend to yourself. So keep on doing what you're doing and let the guy find you. memberX: Yeah, take this advice, and you will be lonely for a long time...just like the person that gave you the advice. xanderiley: Yes, yes mX, you silly person, you can have some attention too. But stop pretending you know me, because -- you don't. And if you've got nothing positive to add to the discussion, moving off so the adults can talk would be a useful and appreciated act. Not that I expect you to do something useful and appreciable, of course. Mr Random: I agree Xand that is the purpose of this discussion it's to resolve an issue or the topic in question (give valid points and opinions about the subject) NOT assume things about other people (i.e. the one making the points or giving advice) otherwise it can just be a rhetorical argument based on assumptions. It's easy to turn around and say the same thing about someone else like this particular someone. Stick to the subject and avoid questioning where someone is coming from especially if you don't have a clue who they are and what their capabilities are. Let their statements withstand the discussion.  Scopinitout1: Maybe, MemberX, but far better to want a person you don't have than to have a person you don't want. Xanderiley's right, and it's okay to be lonely as long as you're free. No big relationship mistakes means no big related regrets. Hang in there, Kara, and don't settle for a person you can live with - wait for the person you can't live without. Karebeargirl: Wow I hope u wernt talking about me being a b*$*y, and I would prefer having a nice guy over a jack ass any day. Lol Mr Random: You're not the 'b' word Kara that's exactly who this person deserves a 'b' lol You on the hand is an 'A' amazing and awesome don't ever forget that Scopinitout1: Awwwww, Kara ... I don't know who you thought was calling you that, but it wasn't me! lol! I was saying, hang in there and don't settle for just anybody - wait for someone who's really worth waiting for! memberX: I think that some members are way too lonely and desperate...and that is why they are not positive and depressed. And here is the answer to your topic... There are no wrong males, there is only unsuccessful female. xanderiley: Don'r worry, mX, keep at it, you'll master this conversation thing yet. Hint: People are more likely to take you seriously if you don't insult others and veer wildly away from the original subject to draw attention to yourself. And they're less likely to take you seriously or give you any other sort of consideration if you don't. Practice at home, and when you feel ready, come back here and try again! We'll all be waiting for your positive and meaningful contribution to the discussion! | Dating Chat Room 1 Person Chatting Similar Conversations |
