best way to deal with "pervs" niamhis: ok i think the best way is .. if you get a pm and it says stuff like wanna see my coc* or show me your ti** well then report them block them and then report the for being inappropriate and when rod or braden does look tru the logs from the people that you have reported he will see what they have said and they will be banned .. so wat i mean to say is there is not much point in complaining about them just block them and report and it should all work out fine  otcclass: You should see my "blocked" list of guys. Now I just set my pm to only accept "friends" so now I can control whom I talk to and whom I don't a little better. It seems these people don't usually talk as dirty as they do in pm in the public rooms. HellButterfly: That's what I do over and over again,they are some sort of pest and they keep coming back,they make the chat rooms annoying otcclass: Hell: Yes, there are those that keep coming into the rooms that flat out ask for girls/guys to cam with or do other things with but I just put those people on ignore.. that is how come my ignore list is so big.. otcclass: lil: sorry but telling them anything will be just playing into their hands... They come in here just because they are not getting the attention they are craving out in the real world. So you telling them anything is just giving them what they want. That is not the point of this is it????  niamhis: and also .... dont let it bother you so much .. it is a chat site and you are going to have guys wanting to be cyber and sleezy but just dont let it ruin your chatting experience im sure the mods and admins are doing their best to keep out the bad guys  lost8642: The first 2 people that went on to my friends list were girls that pm me in chat room and wanted to talk about sz~. No big deal at all . Reading this forum it makes it sound like only guys do it. Read some of the profiles of the females, "willing to talk about anything" and they mean it. A lot of people join wire club to talk to people about anything that comes up (pun), and some of the younger ones like to talk about sw&. Some are cruder then other . The thing is if it offends you don't talk to them. Stay out of chat rooms were this is most likely to happen. Block people that bother you. Report the people that stalk you. But realize that in certain room this will happen and that most young males (and some old one), plus a number of female like to have conversations involing s#~. That is life. otcclass: Lost: Fist... I do wish to apologize if anything I have posted on this blog made it sound like I only thought that guys cyber-s%# and talk dirty. I know what you are saying is true. Girls as well as guys come in here and do that stuff. Second...As far as "staying out of the chat rooms where this is most likely to happen"... sorry but can not do this because I have been to practically all the chat rooms and sorry to say it happens in all the chat rooms. So what you dont want us to go into any of the chat rooms? Third.... sorry but I don't agree that "it is just life" with guys and girls to do this... not all do... just the ones that are desperate to get their thing wet and can not find a girl/guy in real life... lost8642: When I was talking about the chat rooms I meant that some rooms more them others are more likely to this happen in, such as The Night Club, Land of Exile and unfortionatly International Meeting Place. As well as some of the member created rooms, some of which were created to talk about s@#. This is ashame that this happen, but if you follow the conversation you can usually see when it is leading up to conversation involving syw by the way the people are talk. I am not saying that this happens to all young people, but there are always some. This will happen in Wire club, off the internet and most place where young people gather. Sx~ is something that fastenate a lot of the young more so then any other time in life. BUT most people are decent well mannered people. I have been in a number of chat rooms were there is not a problem, and have great conversation with a lot of young people. And by saying this is life I mean that this will happen unless there is complete censorship in all chat room. It is learning to deal with it and learning how to handle different situation in life Please excuse spelling it was not one of my best subject in life otcclass: Lost: But what are we to do about the pervs (girls and boys) in the regular rooms that do this? I believe that is the main reason why this thread was started. Not just for the chat rooms made by others but for the main chat rooms. Little children come in there all the time that wish to act like pervs and sometimes you get to where if you try to put all of them on ignore then you miss what a friend of yours you are trying to talk to is saying due to the fact that the room is going to fast. And sorry to say that you are mistaken again but there are some children that come into the chat room and just right off start talking like a perv and then what are we to do? Just like I say if we try to put them all on ignore then we sometimes risk the chance of missing important messages and such. Sorry but sz& only fascinates those that are not able to get it in real life.. those that are just so desperate that they just have no other outlet but just to cyber and such on places like this. I love to have syz just as much as much as anyone else.. maybe even more so but I don't downgrade myself to coming on a place like this just to get my jollies... even if I was not married or did not have a boyfriend.. I would have more respect for myself then to do that. Sorry but we shouldn't have to "learn to deal" with other people's insecurities and childish behaviors. If I and most of the other people that come in here can act like adults then so should all the rest. Just those that are insecure about themselves and that can not find a real person to be with that has to ruin things for everyone else.. lost8642: Sorry I off for a while, it was interesting talking to you and hearing your opinions, will give this more thought and see what I can come up with. |
