Is it possible that we meet an honest and reliable friend from behind the computer freeman: each one of us have at least 1 friend ,,,, But how can we trust the person we did not met him face to face (only behind pc ).... Someone we does not know who they are his family and his friends and his past and present .. only we know what he or she say ... !!! expect_me247: you either trust them or you dont. its up to the individual if they trust or not. you cant label something as broad a topic as that with a simple yes or no rule. BeejuliasC: its entirely possible, there are some decent people in this world just not enough of them. Kimber: I have meant a few people on here that I truly trust. We each have our individually lives outside of the computer. And a few of them I haven't talked to in a while cause we both live busy lives. But I truly trust they are who they say they are. It wasn't something that happened right away. Cause a majority of the people on here and the internet in general are fakes. But if someone is consist and their story doesn't change over time that trust will gain. There really are some good people on here just got to weed through a lot of bad. stevehardcore: there r alot of good ppl out there, even in chatrooms, believe it or not lol ! ive made friends with so many ppl online and we will prolly never meet. but the conversatiions we have r about real life and from the heart. we all need ppl to talk to and sometimes a chatroom provides that outlet to talk about things u cant talk to with anyone else in ur life. CurvyKooky: Yes i agree i have met a few and bar one that was a complete biatch all the rest where great and we are still friend now...I think if you talk for a while you will get to know whether they are alright or not they cant hold up a fake front for long you will start seeing cracks appear..Ok thats my 2 cents worth... Kimber: I have met a few on here and various other sites. You get what you give in online friendships. So the time, honesty, and friendship you put in is what you can expect to get back from the right person. Just have a guard up and anytime stories changed or don't quite match up take note of it. Go with your gut on the honesty of someone. hornchurchmale: yes possible .however it is the rarity rather than commonality. one can. if we chat over say couple of years get a 'feel' for another person. its hard to fake things over such a long period. so facts can be checked .stories if genuine tend to be observed as such and fibs found out by inconstant. facts etc. not making sense or. raising questions. in all cases if we consider sending personal information or even meeting? we need. to be very careful. ANY meet must be in public place and do not be tempted to go off and chat /etc many a con person once having you there can be full of charm and. so called innocence. always have a friend or form of. safety net . |