If it were a person that inflicts harm, pain among others who are undeserved and unneeded; they themselves deserve no remorse...but at the same time I can be very wrong as well...so perhaps I dont deserve sympathy or friendship either? Reguardless of dramatization or not; it's more worst to let it be ignored or bashed then to lend an ear and assist the situation...I've grown out of telling people they're wrong, they're stupid, and undeserved; and I dont think people are all selfish, but there is a degree of want in everyone~ is that too wrong? Like my grandparents who help the sick or poor to be better; they do it to see someone become better, and return someone their life; is that selfish?