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Parents in Love by Linda Salazar

Share This Posted February 15 2008 06:52 PM Mood: Pleased Doing: something satisfying

A pure, unadulterated pain can sometimes lead to total ecstasy – such awesome feeling arise after a mother delivers her baby. At that miraculous moment, she feels complete and the husband wears his biggest smile like a kid has on his birthday.

Experiencing the birth of a child is definitely one of life’s greatest gifts and it is one of the reasons for relationships to be transformed. Strengthened by the challenges and difficulties in the rearing of the child, the couple becomes closer and more intimate with each other in parenthood. However, most parents feel that the all-encompassing nature of parenthood caught them completely off-guard and unprepared.

How do we cope up with this? By preparation – The challenge is about being a good parent. Parents should give themselves the time to learn about each other in their new roles. The love they share for their children present them with the opportunity to give birth to an extraordinary relationship with their lover and so, they are examples that teach their kids how to handle life.

Keep in mind that with all the changes that we go through, growth emerges for the individual as well as for the couple. Now that we’re parents, let us discover our highest intention in our relationship with our partner.

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Improve your Self Confidence in 15 Minutes by Roger Elliot

Share This Posted January 26 2008 02:25 AM Mood: Happy Playing:

I used to be frightened in social situations. People would never believe that I was like that before. I have realized that self confidence is something that is not hard to achieve and can be learned if one is truly determined.

Some people are naturally confident because of their social exposure and upbringing. Well, if you are not that type of person, here are some tips to help you out. First, let's define what self confidence is. Self confidence means being calm, being cool, not being too concerned with what others think of you, being specific that you need confidence everywhere and you are willing to work for it and if that happens, understand that what you expect is what you will get. Another factor causing lack of self confidence is when you task your mind with negatives. Instead of "screwing up" your brain, set the right task for your brain by powerfully imagining feeling confident and relaxed in a hypnotic state to set it firmly into your subconscious mind.

Now, how can we achieve self confidence as quickly as we can? Imagine of a specific situation that you want to feel confident in. Focus on words that you want to be described at that time like "relaxed" or "calm" so that you can condition your brain and feel those words by imagining the situation and rehearse it in your mind.

If you are able to follow these steps, I am sure that you can develop higher self confidence in a short time.

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Freedom and Religion by Owen Waters

Share This Posted January 26 2008 02:24 AM Mood: Contemplative Reading:

Although most religious organizations have leaders who are sincere in their intentions and pure of heart, we cannot deny that there are also others whose agenda are more self-serving. These leaders usually pursue their quest for power over people.

In the pursuit of power through religion, the primary weapon of conquest is fear and when this has driven love from the hearts of their followers, it may be evident that hatred can be installed in its place which should not be the case. When things like this happen, there is a tendency that these people can be cut off from reconnecting with God.

The objective of life in the spirit realms is to integrate the lessons of the physical life experience - to heal the conflicts, release the negative emotions and become at peace within. The spirit then becomes ready to move on beyond the spirit realms and into the soul realms, where in-depth planning for their next physical incarnation eventually takes place. This is the reason why we are created in infinite diversity so that we can understand that there are many paths to spiritual oneness.

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Getting Out of the Zone by Damien Senn

Share This Posted January 26 2008 02:15 AM Mood: Calm Listening to:

Most of the time, we find ourselves in the same routine and it seems that doing these same things that give us non strenuous effort have kept us in a place called "Comfort Zone". Although a comfort zone may not be bad at all, it can be a reason why some people fail to slip the arena of the "Pleasure Zone".

Staying in one's comfort zone means that one is not willing to take the risk to get outside to try something else which may be for better or for worse. Well, as the saying goes, "It's better to have tried and lost, rather than not to have tried at all." We only have one life to live and it's best to risk and try what lies ahead of us. We can never reach Pleasure Zone if we don't undergo the pains of initiation.

Check on these steps to a less comfortable but more compelling future: Think about your special gifts and what you really love doing most, cultivate these gifts by putting aside your comfort-seeking behavioral patterns and get out of your comfort zone. Show up and be the best that you can be!

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Success by Remez Sasson

Share This Posted January 22 2008 02:08 AM Mood: Cheerful Reading:

The word “success” has a beautiful sound and meaning. However, people have different mental and emotional make and the present mood greatly affects the way we invite “success” into our lives.<o:p> </o:p> Moods have much to do with our feelings towards life yet they just come and go. Now you see them, now you don’t. It’s just like the wind … fluttering this way and a moment later, it’s in a different direction. Can we develop the ability of the wind so that we can decide which direction to take? We should not let our thoughts and moods take control. Rather, we become the deciding factor and not the moods or outside influences. We need to concentrate more and have will power in order to navigate our lives. This is the only time we can achieve success.<o:p></o:p> Success depends on what matters to us most. It may be your plans, desires, ambitions or intentions. The best way is to think and analyze each ambition and desire before starting to realize it, and when achieved, it’s the time to enjoy the happiness of success. Think about these things and take it as a challenge. When negative thoughts come into your mind, replace them with positive ones. Entertain only the positive thoughts and you’re on the way to achieving the real “Success”! By E.A. <a href="http://www.elitemate.com/">www.elitemate.com</a>

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Higher Feelings Manifest Your Desires Faster by Enoch Tan

Share This Posted January 22 2008 02:04 AM Mood: Energetic Writing:

The secret of manifestation is that you do not create reality by what you think but by what you feel. Everything is vibration and you attract those things that you are in vibrational resonance with. The more you experience the feeling of having what you want, the more you will have it. <o:p></o:p>Emotions help you create reality. It is energy and energy attracts like energy according to the law of attraction. Your feelings create your reality. Listening to songs and music greatly affects the way you feel. Faith is also a feeling and a vibration, and a person who have faith in something really feels it. You can choose to be happy by choosing to think of positive thoughts only. Focus on the blessings that you have received. Whenever you feel good or happy, you’re like a magnet that attracts rapidly your desire. Happiness is a choice; you can choose to be happy in any moment.By E.A. <a href="http://www.elitemate.com/">www.elitemate.com</a>

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On Gratitude and Thanksgiving by Owen Waters

Share This Posted January 16 2008 03:46 AM Mood: Calm Writing: living with gratitude...

I have learned that the key that opens the door to the flow
of unconditional love is through our heart.
It is the heartfelt expression of being grateful which means that we
focus on the things that each of us have rather than anything that may be
missing in our life. <o:p> </o:p> Gratitude is a form of love which can be shown when we give
thanks for all the things we have received from the Creator of the universe
through all forms of life and manifestation come from. Love is real and natural. Love is the force which retains electrons in
their orbits, making atoms possible and the existence of life as we know it.<o:p> </o:p>

You can either block love or just let it flow
naturally. However, just imagine how
great the world would be if everybody opens his or her heart to the universe’s
glow of love and in doing so, gratefulness is also manifested. Be happy and thankful for being alive. Savor each experience that every moment can
offer. Give thanks to the Earth for giving you home. Show the people you love how much you care
for them before it’s too late. Be
grateful and thankful for the essence of love flows from it.

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Love Yourself, Elevate Your Life by Allison Oster

Share This Posted January 10 2008 08:24 AM Mood: Happy Writing:

No one can love others unless he/she loves himself/herself
first. You cannot give what you don't
have. Self-love is a vibration. Love yourself and you'll find feeling good
and it shows when you shine above the others.

<o:p> </o:p>How can you love yourself?
Think of the things that you like of yourself. List them down and take time to ponder on the
best qualities that you have. Each of us
is unique in magical ways but these attributes single us out from the rest
thereby making us special which no one can equalize.

<o:p> </o:p>Lovingly work with anything to complete passionate
self-love. Understand your own story
first. Acknowledge it and see what you
can do to heal the inner child in you.
Ask for support and you'll realize that your life will be completely
different when you have healed and resolved your past issues. These are the steps to loving yourself in the
hope to elevate your life.

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Affirmations for Healing and Honoring Relationships by Anita Briggs

Share This Posted January 10 2008 07:45 AM Mood: Happy Reading:

How can we improve our relationships with others? Most of the time there are imperfections and we believe that we can improve any relationship with someone we love if changewill be initiated by the other person.Sometimes we think that we must make compromises or better still, turn a blind eye to things that bother us. However, when we do this, it doesn’t solve the problem at all. <o:p> </o:p>We should understand that our life emerges from ourselves and not from others alone. When we judge another person as needing to change, we place our empowerment on something outside of ourselves. This is not a powerful choice for someone who wants to direct the course of his or his life.One way to honor relationships is to remember and practice a set of affirmations for healing. These affirmations can help us heal and improve relationships. These may include the following: Thinking that everyone in our life as supportive of us; knowing that every person we encounter has an important message for us in this world; believing that all is possible in love; being determined in accomplishing our goals with the benefits of others in mind. If we practice these affirmations, the world will surely become a better place to live in.By E.A. www.elitemate.com

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Parents in Love by Linda Salazar

Improve your Self Confidence in 15 Minutes by Roger Elliot

Freedom and Religion by Owen Waters

Getting Out of the Zone by Damien Senn

Success by Remez Sasson

Higher Feelings Manifest Your Desires Faster by Enoch Tan

On Gratitude and Thanksgiving by Owen Waters

Love Yourself, Elevate Your Life by Allison Oster

Affirmations for Healing and Honoring Relationships by Anita Briggs