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"The Way to Love Anything is to Realize that it might be LOST"
Posted December 26 2007 12:24 AM
<font size="5">Breaking up with someone is never easy. Your heart will try and do everything it can not to feel pain. But through the pain, you will feel an overwhelming sense of peace and you will know, it's the right thing. I've been there. I know about the pain.
It's time to end a relationship when the other persons stops offering love and commitment into the relationship. When one is not focused on going forward and growing in the same direction as the other person. If you love someone and they are not reciprocating the same and their actions are speaking way louder than their words, it might be time to consider separation. The longer you are in a relationship, the harder it may be to heal.
<i>"The greatest pain that comes from LOVE is loving someone you can never have."</i></font>
"When you love someone, all your saved-up wishes start coming out"
Posted December 20 2007 12:43 AM
Mood: Calm
Listening to:
<font size="4"><font face="Garamond"><i>I love you </i>is the "sweetest" one liner...we all likes to listen...not only once, but everyday. Though there should not be any particular occasion or time for one to express his or her love to any person whom they love...it should be often and regular. We all love to be loved by others....LOVE is such a strange, wonderful thing that nobody really had codified what it is yet. One cannot exist without the love of another. To live for another makes a life complete in every way. Each beat of one's heart, each breath, each small thought signifies a SMALL part of a love that is shared with another.
How do we know if it is really love? One of the most difficult questions to answer! I think in order to find out if you love someone, the basic place to start would be to ask yourself, do you want to be with them? If the answer is "NO", then it really can't be love. When you love someone, you want to be with them. Not just be with them, but share everything to them. You feel excited at the prospect of just being in their company, just being close isn't enough, you want to be part of their life forever. You can't stand the thought of being away from them. You can almost feel what they are feeling. Wanting to sleep with someone and wanting to spend the rest of your life with someone is far different.
Being overly dependent on the other person is also not a part of love. Some people fall into the trap of thinking they love someone just because they are afraid to be alone. They have become dependent on the other person for so much they don't know how to make it on their own, or they would much rather be with someone than no-one.
If one find him/herself in love with someone who does not love him/her, be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.
And if you find someone else in love with you and you don't love him/her., feel honored that love came and called at your door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not take advantage. Do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with you and all our hearts feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
And if you fall inlove with someone, he/she falls in love with you, and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it or to assess blame, let it go. There is a reason and there is a meaning. You will know in time. You have to understand that you don't choose lofe. Love chooses you. All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life.
Feel that way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can. Love is a gift and it can be made to grow only by giving it away. Love has its own time, its own season, and its own reason for coming and going. One cannot bribe it, or coerce it, or reason it into saying. We can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if you chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do.
Love always has been and always will be a mystery. Be glad that it came to live for a moment in our life. If you keep your heart open, it will come again...........
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~~The greatest joy of my life is Falling in love with you~~
Posted December 17 2007 07:18 PM
<font face="Georgia"><font size="5">We want to fall in love...WHY?...Because that exprience makes us feel completely alive, where every sense is heightened and every emotion is magnified. Our everyday reality is shattered and we are flying into the heavens. It may only last a moment, an hour or an afternoon, but that doesn't diminish its value, because we are left with memories that we treasure for the rest of our lives.....
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"OUr greatest weakness is our failure to embrace them"
Posted December 16 2007 11:20 PM
<font face="Garamond" size="4">LIFE needs us to bring our strengths to the world. To encourage us to do so, we have weaknesses that give rise to problems that require us to call on our strengths to solve them. Ingenious, don't you think?
With any gift of Strength, there is an associated weakness. Without "bad", there would be no "good". Without "difficult" there would be no "easy". We value our strengths, but we often curse and ignore our weaknesses. To grow as a person and get what we want out of life, we must not only capitalize upon our strengths but also face our weaknesses and deal with them. That means taking a hard look at our personality types potential problem areas.
Our weakness are divine gifts that when we embraced will enable us to make our purposeful contribution to the whole. Feed your strengths and face your weaknesses. Give yourself every opportunity to show others your appreciation of situation and how you could see it through to a good outcome. Take charge where you can make it count. But understand you have limits too. Your careful world view is the whole deal. How things look and feel may not concern you, but they concern many others. Try and allows such things to and learn from them.</font>
~Don't be pushed by your PROBLEMS, be led by your DREAMS~
Posted December 14 2007 06:45 PM
<font size="5"><font face="Georgia">There are times when we wonder why we have to go through grief and pain in our lives. If we think about it, we have to realize that grief, pain, mistakes and heartaches are part of life that we all experience at one time or another if we are to live on earth. We can't escape them. And if we could drop all our troubles and never see them again would we remember what we learned from our troubles and pains?
Always remember that "if we didn't get hurt in life, we wouldn't grow and learn, we woudn't progress to a new level, a new path and a new journey. Each hardship come with a great experience. It is a matter of whether we get the meaning behind those hardships..
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"There is a time for departure even when there is no certain place to go."
Posted December 13 2007 06:07 PM
<font size="4"><font face="Garamond">Letting go </font></font><font size="4"><font face="Garamond">is one of the hardest lessons in life. Letting go of your past and memories are also extremely hard. Eventhough those memories are tormenting, yet you might hold on to the past and refuse to move forward. However, by refusing to let go of the painful past, it'll serve as a road block to love.
It's easy to form an attachment to people and it can be a very painful experience and feeling when you realized that its time to let go. Even just a mere thought of not having that person in your life, squezzes your heart in pain. But in life, there's so many things that we have to learn to let go, let go of situations, things, memories, people and even ourselves.
Letting go of your old self and the process of letting the new you, emerge can be one of the scariest experiences in your life. But by leaving behind your old self and taking a leap of faith into the unknown, it might just reveal what you are truly capable of becoming.
It's hard to let go if you are not that determined to let go. If you are still hoping for some changes or miracles that all those heartaches will go. But one thing you should remember <i>"if you don't stand of something, you will fall of everything." </i>
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"For a magic to happen in your life, you must believe in Magic"
Posted December 13 2007 01:35 AM
<font size="4">LOVE is a grease that allows the wheel of life continue turning. For when we love we look beyond ourselves, beyond our needs and desires. LOVE makes heroes every day in every corner of the world. LOVE able to undertake all things and it completes many things. LOVE is important because without it LIFE has no meaning or purpose. Love allows us to be more and do more than we could ever accomplish without its power.
LOVE has it magical power to overcome all troubles, heal, illnesses, create wonders. Love arises not between angels but between people with all their litlle sins and flows. Love is worth all the troubles one has to walk through to gain it. As we know Rome wasn't built in a day, the same thing with love. There's no any perfect act of loving. It's always a road laid with compromises, everyday battle not with the one you love, but with yourself.
LOVE is having compassion for others, sharing feelings and your life with another person as well as having faith in others and forgiving those we love for the any errs that they may make.
LOVE is kind, love has no envy, love has no high opinion of itself, love has no pride; love ways are ever fair, it takes no thought for itself; it is not quickly made angry, it keeps no accounts of wrong; it takes no pleasure in wrong doing but has joy in what is true; love has the power of undergoing all things, having faith in all things, hoping all things. Love has no end.
LOVE has no meaning at all! It is the very essence of our being. It is life itself. "Infinite love is all there is, everything else is Illusion" ENJOY IT! There is nothing else to do...
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~The Gift Of JOY~
Posted December 7 2007 12:01 AM
<i><font face="Courier New"><font size="4">Some people unconsciously believe that its not okay to feel more joyful than the people around them. Out of a mistaken sense of caring, they squelch their joy and tune into the sadness of the one they are with.
Joy is the greatest gift we can give to ourselves. It is also the greatest gift we can give to others. Our presence is truly the most precious and powerful gift we have to share with anyone. Our presence does make a difference to us, our families, our friends, our collegues and our world. Those who are unhappy need our joy, not our sadness. Joy isn't like having a big laugh. It isn't dependent on circumstances. Very often it is present in spite of an adverse situation - it is the gift of God. </font>
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Hope and Disappointment
Posted December 4 2007 07:16 PM
Mood: Calm
<font face="Arial" size="4">Don't get your HOPES up!</font><font size="4">
We're you warned of this as a child? What does this say? It says that life is bound to disappoint you. It says, don't aim high because you're not likely to get what you want. It says that we can't expect good things to happen to us.
Sometimes, I felt that it is better not to hope. Because if in the end the things didn't go as it was wished, the feeling of disappointment would come. For some people will feel so empty. It feels like there is no determination to go.
One irony about life is that there is this pattern to it. When things are going all right and you actually start believing that things are as nice as they seem, they suddenly change their color scheme to the exact opposite.
Hope on the other hand, is like drugs. It gives you a temporary high, but then, reality strikes and you have to face the consequences. Hope is a pretty good way of spending the time in between two tragedies. Your life may not actually be beautiful, but at least it will seem beautiful. Why do we need to hope? I mean, if life isn't going to be fair, why bother with hope and the things like that? To validate fairness? We don't need to hope to validate fairness, we don't need to hope to live our lives for us. To fight our battles or to make things right. We need to hope to keep the boat sailing in storm till its past. We need it to keep us going till life comes full circle, because it will. We need hope, because we have no option. <i>DON'T GIVE IT UP</i>. It's more precious than you might know. And giving it up, will make things as worst as you envisioned, for all you know. Allow yourself to hope and believe in all possibilities. As Barbara Kingsolver said: <i> "The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof."</i>
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An Important Person in my LIFE
Posted December 2 2007 09:43 PM
Mood: Thankful
<i><font size="4">I believe that all the people who a person interacts with everyday leave a trace in one's mind and influence some aspect of his or her personality. What is more, some people have such a vivid characters, that just one meeting with them is enough to leave a strong impact. I have met many different and interesting people who have played important roles in helping me shape my personality and who have even caused significant changes in my life. For this reason, it is hard for me to choose a single person who has had an important influence on me. I can think of one person, however, who has impacted my life in the most positive way. SHE is someone who is always there for me no matter what the outcome. SHE'S the first one there to say "good job" or to "congratulate me" and the first one there to talk with me and make me look at things from a new perspective when I am down on myself. The most important person in my life is probably not even aware of the things she has taught me or how much she has affected my existence.
This person has always been in my life from the day I first opened my eyes to the present moment. This person is a teacher, a guide and a source of strength and support. SHE is whom I look up to with loving trust and pride. With a willing hand to lend, she is a helper, an adviser and my partner in crime. SHE showed me the stars and taught me how to reach them. SHE is the reason I am who I am. She has helped me in every conceivable capacity from studies to fixing something around the house to understanding what the right thing to do in any given tough situation. SHE gives me hope to go through life and make a difference. SHE has a great job which makes me want to overcome her greatness and be extremely successful in my later life. This person means the world to me, so who is this influential person in my life? SHE is my one and only MOTHER. SHE gave me the greatest gift anyone could give to another person; she believed in me.
She may not be a doctor or a beauty queen - she is a plain housewife - yet she has left me the greatest impact on me. My mother is the individual who has influenced me the most and is the greatest gift I have ever received.</font></i>
Life's Journey
Posted November 26 2007 11:59 PM
Mood: Cheerful
* Do not undermine your worth by comparing yourself with others.
<i>It is because we are different that each of us is special.</i>
* Do not set your goals by what other people deem important.
<i>Only you know what is best for you.</i>
Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart.
* <i>Cling to them as you would your life, for without them, life is meaningless.</i>
Do not let your life slip through your fingers by living in the past nor for the future.
<i>By living your life one day at a time, you live all of the days of your life.</i>
Do not give up when you still have something to give.
<i>Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.</i>
It is a fragile thread that binds us to each other.
* <i>Do not be afraid to encounter risks.</i>
It is by taking chances that we learn how to be brave.
<i>Do not shut love out of your life by saying it is impossible to find.</i>
The quickest way to receive love is to give love.
<i>The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly.</i>
In addition, the best way to keep love is to give it wings.
* <i>Do not dismiss your dreams.</i>
To be without dreams is to be without hope
<i> To be without hope is to be without purpose.</i>
Do not run through life so fast that you forget not only where you have been
<i> but also where you are going.</i>
<i><font size="6">Life is not a race, but a journey to be savoured each step of the way.</font></i>
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